I was just talk this issue with my "trainer" this afternoon about her relationship.
It makes me very curious about this question for long time
since she had two times relationship before then i started to ask
eh, "DO YOU THINK PPL THAT IN RELATIONSHIP WILL REALLY CHANGE UR MIND SET"?
the answer i got from her is "YES of coz, it is also a so call learning process"
(this answer is wat i feel so)
A relationship can make people show their own real attitude and personality to their love compare to friends. Is it just because of the care-ness that have put on? How you think?
Maybe it's really help us (certain people) to change the thinking because of the relationship.
Sometime i will ask myself? " Hey Yong Yee, Am i mature enough?"
The Answer: i think i STILL VERY enough OF COZ
From there i will try to think bout my own relationship. Like Example:
- Will I say "YES" if one guy come and ask me to become her gf?
- Am i ready to have a relationship now?
My answer: i still prefer single and never get to feel the "warmness" of having a relationship before. From this point, izzit shows that i am still not mature?
- When is the day of "white horse prince" will appear in front of me?
All this questions will suddenly POP out in my mind... =.=
agree or disagree on this? How you do feel that?
Thank you and have a nice and great day. Y(o.o)Y
5 comments:
hmm... tell u wat, the answer she gave is also one of the statement i told my friends. but about mature or not mature. it just does not really related (in my opinion).
firstly, a BF/ a GF is clearly a higher lever of friendship (minus good friends). the time one spend will be longer, will be 'sweeter' n also things that u do with friends will be different.
just like a class/company. u will have a leader n also a follower. this goes to relation too. one of the partner will be a leader (which the stronger one in terms of mentality) n the other one will be a follower. it will never never be the same de. if not WAR is it. It is a theory!
Bare in mind that, mostly those that have relationship before de will act differently compare to singles (but it also depends). when someone broke up, the oni things i will say is 'is a learning process' everything we do in every second is a learning process..... thats y i just don like people to say 'nothing to learn'. haha
sis, about your prince..... TIME, is all u need. when things happen, u will find a solution. Are u ready? u wont know until u try..... seriously, u need to test out then oni u know. some people said they like being single. i always wanted to ask them "had u try before in relation??" or just say it because the influences of their friends? seeing friends breaking up is hurting, but u cant take that n make it a conclusion on gals/guys n the relationship.
for me the reason people don try relationship is because many wanted their first to be their last.... one can wish for that but PLS don set it a GOAL.... (Chinese: the more u hope the bigger the disappointed will be)
lastly, what yours is always yours n what not will always never be (but that does not mean u just sit at home de....all u need is TRY)
wasei.... did not realize is THAT LOOOOOOOOOOONG! haha
yes....son i agree with u~ i dun think tat relate to mature or not mature too...hahaha...
kind of surprise yee u will hav tis kind of blog...
n now, elLyn Heng, i will ask u y dun have a try ??/ =)
yes....son i agree with u~ i dun think tat relate to mature or not mature too...hahaha...
kind of surprise yee u will hav tis kind of blog...
n now, elLyn Heng, i will ask u y dun have a try ??/ =)
eh eh eh... wat u want to say ler? no la.. just curious ma.....
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